Stop beating your fucking kids 👶

A newsletter on peaceful parenting.

A woman screaming at her child

What’s up man,

Today we’re going to discuss why you should stop beating your children, or not beat your future children. In other words why you should parent peacefully, instead of violently.

First of all, you do not hit people you love. Every time you hit them, this is a physical communication, conditioning, and demonstration that you do not love and value them. If you’re a certified normie (beta male), I know you have a lot of excuses for why this is not the case.

I assure you, they are all bullshit and you are lying to yourself. The same way you were lied to by the retarded and aggressively irrational culture around you. Jordan Benzo Peterson said life is suffering, and your favorite motivational guru screamed on Instagram that life is all about sacrifice, and that fat fucking pastor you like said tough love is real love and everyone ever told you that relationships are all about compromise.

Bla bla bla. All fucking nonsense.

You hear this shit and think it’s “based” because the 20 second video reel that plugs directly into your ADD raddled brain had some epic music and effects slapped on it. The speaker was SCREAMING, bald, and shirtless. So cool bro. It must be true, he was yelling and stuff. This is how your brain is emotionally manipulated.

In reality this is all mainstream sheep feed. The exact same bullshit you already believe, being scooped right out of your ass and spoon fed back to you. None of it actually challenges anything you already believe. You have in fact been brainwashed to resent, distrust, and close your mind to anything outside the Overton slave window that conflicts with what you already believe [had installed without realizing it].

The flip side of this slave coin brainwashing is that your are tricked into keeping your mind open to endless bullshit (more brainwashing to keep you on the plantation). Your mind is both open and closed in the worst of ways. You’re getting fucked on both ends essentially.

Ayn Rand’s solution was to have an active mind. That being “close minded” and “open minded” are in fact both equally retarded. While “open mindedness” is usually the better regarded of the two in daily life, she would call today’s culture “so open minded that your brains are falling out of your ears”.

Like this beta male here.

Hence we live in an age where people can’t figure out what bathroom to use, and 37 year old feminist single moms shit out kids from frozen eggs, only to think it’s a great idea to chop their child’s dick/balls/tits off 10 years later.

Surgically “transitioning” your kids is in fact a moral imperative to these people. Child mutilation lunacy of this magnitude is in fact where open mindedness leads after enough time. Open minded to a bottomless pit of hell on earth.

Second of all, of the thousands of men reading this, there’s a 99% chance I’m more masculine than you. I say that both to brag and rile you up. I say that sincerely too, since for me and you both, healing and strengthening your masculinity is very difficult today. The empire is maligned against you, wants you fat, weak, effeminate, unprincipled, unmanly, and dependent.

The patriarchy has long since been dissolved. When Taylor Swift says “fuck the patriarchy” she’s kicking the dried skeleton of a dead horse. What this means is that you live in a world that does not support masculinity in any way that is not subservient and enslaved to the matriarchy. To the empire of feminism.

For example the US military has been running ads lately featuring a lot of white men for the first time in years. All of a sudden diversity doesn’t matter. Why is that? Because recruitment is way down and WW3 is around the corner. So they need to dupe a bunch of white boys - which is most fighting age men in America - into thinking it’s patriotic and manly to go die for Jews or Ukraine or whatever the next useless proxy war is.

You think fat women are getting drafted to go fight and die for that shit? Hell no. Karen and Shaniqua both are gonna sit home on their fat asses pigging out on whatever race specific favorite foods they have while you go get your legs blown off for Taiwan. Equality suddenly goes out the window when military slavery and death are on the line.

There’s a larger reason I raise the masculinity issue though. Tons of men think it’s “manly” to beat their kids, specifically their sons. That this sort of hardship “toughens them up”.

Well I’m here to tell you it doesn’t. I went through an incredibly violent childhood and it helped exactly 0% with becoming a man and being masculine. Most kids who get beaten this bad end up dead, in jail, or drug addicts. If not that then they end up effeminate and beta as fuck, something I’ve observed first hand. You do nothing but beat the masculinity out of the boy and his future.

All the same applies for unhinged single moms who whack the shit out of their sons. This is just another avenue to undermine that boy’s future masculinity.

I am not normal. I am the 1 out of 100 exception to how children of violent alcoholics actually turn out. The rest as I’ve said before end up in jail, dead, or living under a bridge.

To put it differently, philosopher Stefan Molyneux once said to me on a podcast interview that people from violent/abusive childhoods tend to turn out as “gods or devils”. And there are a lot of fucking devils.

Third of all, speaking of Stefan, he was the first public figure I encountered advocating for what he and others call “peaceful parenting”.

If I’m paraphrasing his ideas correctly, he believes that good parenting, and specifically peaceful parenting can change the world as parenting itself - both motherhood and fatherhood - are an axis point of human life. A fundamental node of sorts.

That’s a big idea. Whether he’s correct or not, at bare minimum, this would be a major step in the right direction towards a new golden age. Intact, patriarchal families where parents love their children and don’t assault them under the pretense of good intentions.

On the subject of “peaceful parenting” I do want to point you to the blog of Anthony Migliorino. I don’t get along with a lot of the beta males he hangs out with, but, his writing and advocacy for peaceful parenting is top notch. Highly recommended.

Fourth, I do want to take a moment and differentiate between corporal discipline and legit domestic violence without even the pretense of good intentions. I realize that from a legal, moral, and parental perspective that these are not the same thing. Certainly spanking a 4 year old on the butt is a far cry from closing your first and punching your wife and sons in the face on a regular basis.

The majority of what I experienced and witnessed growing up was just classic, violent alcoholic, steroid induced domestic violence. There was no reason my dad would beat my mom bloody and drag her around on the ground by her hair like an animal kicking and screaming. It’s just who he was and what he did when he got too drunk. Rarely did the violence have anything to do with discipline for me or my brother.

The problem even with well intentioned child beating “for their own good” is not just that it’s morally wrong and misguided, it’s that your child’s brain has a hard time processing who you are and what you represent.

You are at once a creator and destroyer to them. A god-like figure, their literal creator, who is charged with protecting and caring for them, even dying to protect them.

You should make them feel safe and protected. That mom and dad have their back no matter what.